In my case I keep getting more and more melancholic about it as the months, weeks, days, hours, minutes ticks away until finally leading up to the final ceremony.
Afterwards though, I usually have no trouble moving on and I'm more excited for Lovendor and her future activities rather than sad about her graduating anyway.
Now that I think about it, this is my standard reaction for every graduation ever, even for my past favorites. At worst it's complete disregard and total ambivalence.
I just hope when the ultimate test for me comes it'll just multiply the scales of the emotional roller coaster by idk... a trillion? and not leave me an empty wreck as far as my attachment to the group is concerned.
Not really that worried though...
/blasphemy /corporeal penance