Jessi wrote:You can't completely lack respect for one member of a group and then still call yourself a fan of said group.
I disagree. I get what you're saying, and if it's extreme, sure, but there are certain past MM。members I really don't like and yet MM。is still my favourite musical act.
Don't be an asshole about members you dislike, yeah, but you don't have to like everything about a group to be a fan of a group.
And honestly, I don't mind it when people post negative comments about members they aren't fans of, so long as it's not constant. You can say things like "I wish X didn't get so much Y" or "I really don't like X". But there's a fine line between that and "X needs to hurry up and graduate". But that's a very small minority. Most people aren't that childish, really.
Going up to a girl at a handshake event or whatever just to say you hate her is completely different to being an ass online. Most of those are empty statements and people are negative in general a lot of the time (me included). But if you put that much effort into making a girl feel upset IRL, it's got nothing to do with whether or not you're a fan -- you're a piece of shit.
EDIT: I missed your above comment. I think we're actually agreeing, but I just misinterpreted it. Whoops. Anyway, this is how I feel about the topic.